Do you ever think about how upgrades are relative to what we had before? One girl may go from a flip phone to an iPhone 3 and be so hyped she wouldn't even realize she was missing out on an iPhone 5. Another girl may order an iPhone 5, but get intimidated by all the new things it can do... return it and go back to her flip phone. Those same things can happen in dating... Sometimes we think we've "upgraded" because someone is treating us better than what we're used to. But if we're used to being treated poorly, that doesn't mean much.
On the other hand we may say we want to upgrade, but when it finally happens we get in our own way and can't adapt. That was me when I first met Mr. Man: I had been whining that I seemed to only attract "flip phone dudes", but when a "smartphone" type of guy was put in my path, I panicked and couldn't activate our relationship.
I had a harsh conversation with myself in a post called "I said I deserved the best, but do I believe it?" and then I pulled it together slowly. I had been praying for a certain type of guy, I had been complaining that I too deserved to be with someone who had the qualities I was looking for... so why was I shocked when he finally came along?
In this weeks #CurvyConvo, Live! we had a good chat about plus size dating standards, body image issues and how to shop with your skinny friends without feeling uncomfy. You can watch the video below... I'm really enjoying talking to you girls live each week, so I'm going to keep it going :-)
The next #CurvyConvo, Live will happen on Monday, August 25th at 9pm Eastern RSVP here!
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Special thanks to my girl Amanda for hanging with me... follow her on YouTube: youtube.com/imfashionablylate